Holistic Bonfire

Suruchi Saini, MA, LPC, CCTP, TMHP, CYT

Holistic Living

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Mindfulness for Healthcare Professionals

Suruchi at St Peters

One more time I had the opportunity to conduct a Mindfulness and Meditation workshops as part of Cardio Metabolic Institute (CMI) team, at St Peter’s Hospital and their Family Health Center in NJ. Met a group of professionals who work hard and give their best to every single patient they interact with directly or indirectly every day.

In the workshop, some of the participants shared that they have been practicing some form of meditation and mindfulness “to keep ourselves calm” and stable at work as well as home. Still there was a great enthusiasm to learn more tools and techniques that Yoga and Mindfulness practices offer. Some of the tools we discussed in the workshop:

  • Using our five senses daily, especially during and after any form of distress
  • Listening to your gut feeling more often, especially when confused
  • Following 8/8 rule which means minimum eight hours of sleep and eight glasses of water/day to keep mind and body stable, and prepared for daily stressors
  • Meditating regularly for overall health, and early recovery from daily distressing situations
  • Pressing you face with your warm hands and/or hugging yourself
  • Using white/yellow lights as per the need and many other tools.

Even though this appears to be a list of simple to do things, our mind and bodies need intense work to make them part of our lives and that’s where I help my clients.

It is very important for a healthcare professionals to stay calm and in control during any moment of distress because in those critical moments, they are not only helping their patients but are also role modeling for everyone else involved!

During the workshop, the participants performed three different kinds of meditations and whole body muscle relaxation. We followed with discussion on how Neuroscience has been providing evidence about benefits of daily meditation in bringing positive changes in our mind/body chemistry which play an exceptional role in keeping our mind as stable as a calm river, without any ripples.

In the end, I must admit that representing CMI, and presenting to this group was very satisfying. I always wanted to do something for the fellow professionals. Being part of the huge healthcare system, I am aware of the daily challenges, especially when it comes to expressing compassion for clients/patients while a professional herself is having a bad day. That demands enormous energy and strength. So hats off to all those professionals who, in spite of their own stresses,   provide care to their clients with a smile!!

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Be Yourself

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Speaking at SAMHAJ/NAMI event on June 4, 2015 was another wonderful experience. People came from all walks of life with questions in their minds ranging from “who am I”, “why I am unable to control my mind”, “why I am unable to communicate with my children or my partner” and “why I am still not happy after working so hard”.

States of mind

During the event, we explored the various stages of human being and the obstacles we face in them. We also discussed about our different states of mind which according to Yoga Philosophy are – “Tamas”(Unconscious; ignorant; negative; injure others; sluggish), “Rajas”(Conscious; active; reason, seeks power & pleasure), “Sattva”(Super conscious; very active; powerful; one with everything; serene; content; happy). At times when we are in a particular state of mind, we may find it difficult to understand others who are in a different state of mind than ours. That’s why knowledge of these three states of mind and being Mindful is extremely important.

Roles in Life

Later we discussed that we are born as “Spiritual Beings”- happy; peaceful; loving; contented but while playing different roles as children; siblings; partners; parents; grandparents; friends; employees; bosses; business owners and so on, most of the times we get disconnected with our real self. All these roles take us away from our Spiritual self because we put in so many efforts in all of these roles to do well in life which is generally expected. However we forget to feed in or make efforts to take care of our Real Self. Result, an unnatural life style leading to internal and external chaos; superficiality; stress leading to numbness/disconnection.

Yoga Philosophy, Mindfulness and Neuroscience have many tools to help you to connect with yourself again. To begin with, start Meditation 5-10 min/day, initially with music and later without it.

First step to make a change

People mentioned that it’s difficult to have that kind of discipline, I disagreed. Disciplining is easy because we have been doing this since childhood, the difficult part is making it a priority in our thoughts. After that all we have to do is follow our thoughts!!

Dear reader, if for some reasons, you can’t do that initially, seek help. It’s even more important for you to do it. It’s often mentioned that everybody needs to meditate for 20 minutes daily, and if you are too busy to do this, then you should do it for about an hour!!!

Figure out your way to find your “Real self”. All the acquired roles can give you pleasure for some time but the “Happiness” will come from within you, when you are your most natural. Be yourself!!!

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~ Liberation Again ~

Suruchi Saini, MA, LPC, NCC, CCTPThe morning calmness stills me

The life begins again,

A new beginning, a new thought

Feel like a new person again,

Someone stands up for a cause

A new leader is born again,

Someone apologizes genuinely

Love is retained again,

Someone forgives someone

Freedom of human spirit returns again,

Someone comes back to a dear one

A relationship is restored again,

A child is born somewhere

A mother is born, again,

Have achieved the status of an adult

I am a child’s spirit again,

When someone reconnects with nature

It takes my breath away again,

One more time I feel the bliss

Sun, Air, Water, Earth, and Fire are beautiful again,

It’s a new day

And it’s full of life again.

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Exploring Holistic Living

Women's group on June 10 2015

On June 10, 2015, an event was hosted by Bijay Minhas, LCSW where I had an opportunity to meet a group of wonderful women who in spite of their busy schedules as partners; mothers; colleagues; boss; caretaker; friend, got together in Morris Plains, NJ. Together we explored, learned, and shared how and what we can do to rise higher to take care of ourselves first and to help our near and dear ones. The group was very enthusiastic and very interested in “Holistic Living”. I admire them for who they are!!!

We discussed the three states of human mind Tamas (dark, ignorant), Rajas (active, pleasure seeking), Sattva (most powerful, peaceful), and how having knowledge about them can reduce daily psychological, family, and social stresses.

Benefits of meditation

We discussed how meditation can help almost everyone to have more clarity about our thoughts and actions and its effect on ourselves and others around us; to control our mind; to discipline ourselves; to know ourselves; to identify our real priorities; to make realistic goals and take appropriate steps to achieve them, while remaining unattached to them so that we don’t lose our real identity.

Yes goals are important but when we are not at peace from within; we tend to lose our spiritual selves in them or get too attached to them, we feel internal turbulence which eventually starts showing up in all our actions and relationships. In that state of mind, if we happen to succeed in achieving our goals somehow, we may feel pleasure for short term but happiness will continue to elude us.

We also discussed how transitions and traumas make us vulnerable. When we are mindful of our thoughts and actions, and are constantly working on them during daily meditations and self-reflections, we take steps to make it easy to get through them. However when we are on the autopilot or take mindless actions, we become part of the damage-brigade.

Meditation leads to mental and emotional cleansing; recharges our batteries; makes us more patient; helps us find peace and happiness within ourselves which means mental, emotional, spiritual, and social freedom. Above all, meditation helps us to be more accepting; less expecting; more forgiving, and be less judgmental of ourselves and others around us.

Individual and collective evolution will happen any ways. When we are mindful, the process is empowering but when we are mindless, the process becomes exhausting. The choice is ours.